tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post4941120342063981890..comments2024-02-02T16:10:41.327-06:00Comments on Superman Sam: Would Have BeenPhyllis Sommerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16654761832717723000noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-52101480397838162452014-02-21T14:12:18.689-06:002014-02-21T14:12:18.689-06:00"Would have been" must torture you, and ..."Would have been" must torture you, and all I can say is somehow "sassy Sam" lingers in your words, and possibilities in my own life can become realities, thanks to him.MIGUELhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08796092791553724145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-69208778635177872462014-02-21T12:22:54.940-06:002014-02-21T12:22:54.940-06:00A beautiful boy who will always be remembered.A beautiful boy who will always be remembered.S Posthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17645199650175011183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-84736575123085210642014-02-21T11:25:40.980-06:002014-02-21T11:25:40.980-06:00I've never commented on your blog, but I'v...I've never commented on your blog, but I've been reading it for awhile. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. My son was stillborn, his surviving twin sister will be 6 in May and I have another daughter that will be 10 next week. I still think about what could have been, what our life would be like now if he had survived. The thoughts aren't as all consuming as they once were, but they still come. Sometimes life feels like a landmine and you never know what will trigger the feelings. I hesitate to say it gets easier, because the pain is always there, but it changes. I think you become more able to manage it, but at least in my experience you never stop thinking about what could have been. I know I haven't. I can't stop imagining what my life would have been like if both my precious twins had survived. What our family would have been like with 3 living children. What raising twins would have been like, what raising a son would have been like. Again, I'm so sorry your precious Sammy died. Thank you for sharing your family with the rest of us through your writing. I think it's It's harder to choose life and move forward than it is to let the grief swallow me whole, but I remind myself that the best way I can honor my son (and my other children) is to live and try and be happy.Momof3https://www.blogger.com/profile/06380040483282437960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-65313832237678327392014-02-21T09:43:49.365-06:002014-02-21T09:43:49.365-06:00Love, I send you all the love I have in my heart f...Love, I send you all the love I have in my heart for a beautiful little boy whom I never met but morn his passing every day. My oldest son is participating in St. Baldrick's next month in Sam's honor. Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14494737675140498022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-37869143494425559842014-02-21T09:02:55.193-06:002014-02-21T09:02:55.193-06:00much warmth and love. thank you for sharing with u...much warmth and love. thank you for sharing with us. wishing you and your family shabbat shalom. rochelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13500239033148201774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-85660210397856006592014-02-21T08:04:22.737-06:002014-02-21T08:04:22.737-06:00Yes, yes, yes, what @rbarenblat wrote. Present and...Yes, yes, yes, what @rbarenblat wrote. Present and listening and reflecting and sending so much love out into the universe for your family. Elizabethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00975299233504897502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-14778751540345872432014-02-21T07:15:13.017-06:002014-02-21T07:15:13.017-06:00As always, thank you for your honesty. Always thin...As always, thank you for your honesty. Always thinking of all 6 of you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17742179540394016846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-75645367677124770292014-02-21T07:08:04.388-06:002014-02-21T07:08:04.388-06:00Hugs. Beautiful, honest post. Hugs. Beautiful, honest post. Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08933444348029061497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-20340751236534157792014-02-21T07:04:51.603-06:002014-02-21T07:04:51.603-06:00I don't have answers, but I'm here, and I&...I don't have answers, but I'm here, and I'm listening, and I'm holding you and your whole family in my heart with love. May the coming Shabbat bring some balm to your soul.rbarenblathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10882606147795083729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-34793325030549291462014-02-21T03:19:30.259-06:002014-02-21T03:19:30.259-06:00you've shared your Sammy with the world, more ...you've shared your Sammy with the world, more people than possibly would have ever had met him. That's a big thing.<br />Shabbat ShalomBatyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1462665789660058576.post-17070297350656377342014-02-21T00:27:21.780-06:002014-02-21T00:27:21.780-06:00<3.<3.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00269331464632659168noreply@blogger.com